Thursday, July 31, 2014

8 Mental Disorders and they myths



1. The Antisocial Personal Disorder (Antisocial Personality Disorder)
Myth: A person who avoids social interaction is "antisocial" .This mostly semantic errors, and therefore I put it in tenth place.

Many people refer to someone who is reluctant to participate in social situations as "antisocial". In fact, these people are often involved as a pro-social, even unusually so.

Antisocial Personality Disorder is diagnosed in adults who consistently ignore the rights of others to behave loudly, lying, stealing, or generally act recklessly without considering the safety of themselves or others.

They are often extroverted and it was very turned state with the type of person who is so often called "antisocial", which is usually very concerned about the feelings of others.

Antisocial people usually just shy or have some form of autism, depression, social anxiety disorder, or avoidant personality disorder (AvPD).

AvPD, which is diagnosed in people who avoid social interaction because of intense fear to be rejected, perhaps part of the reason for this confusion.
Both personality disorders, after all, has a very similar name, but both are very different things.

 2 .Multiple Personality Disorder (multiple personality)
Myth: People with Dissociative Identity Disorde radically change their behavior and lose their memory of what had just happened when they switch personalities.

Some people would say that DID itself is a myth, therefore, suspect, far more often diagnosed in North America than anywhere else, but let's assume for this day does not exist.

People with DID have two to more than a hundred different personalities who in turn took over their bodies.
This alternate personality ("change") usually, but not always, formed by childhood trauma.

Change does not always lead to big changes, visible changes in appearance or behavior, so that the observer may not even be aware of their existence. Many people with DID ("multiples") recognize that various changes and know that there are people who, even before the therapy, which would not work well if they do not have a memory replacement.

It is possible that one personality has no knowledge of what happened while one of the personalities have been responsible, causing a sense of amnesia, but they may be fully aware of what is happening and are not actively involved.

Group changes can usually communicate to some degree, and may even work together to hide the fact that they mempunyaibanyak personality changes.

Some of these multiples sufferers choose not to do therapy to choose one's personality and stop switching personalities, because they are living in harmony with some kepribaian as a complementary team

3. Dyslexia
Myth: All people with dyslexia disorder can not be read because they see the letters in the wrong order.

It is actually two myths in one, but still just two of the many myths about dyslexia.

The first is that dyslexic people can not read.
Actually, most of them learn to read, but if they do not get the right help, they often learn slowly and remain below their grade level at a speed too understanding.

But even that is not always true: many dyslexic children find ways to cover the trouble to read them to the class three or four or even longer. And if they are taught by someone who understands dyslexia, they can learn to read well.

The other side of this myth is that the problems dyslexics have problems with reading because they see words backwards or damaged crate. This may seem to occur because, in their confusion as they try to figure out a word, they mix the letters or sounds, and some people left and right confused dyslexic or have a lot of trouble with spelling.

However, this is not the cause of their problem. Dyslexia is much more to be assisted by a unique way of thinking of the problem with the processing of visual information.

 4.Schizophrenia
Myth: Schizophrenic people hear voices in their heads.

We all know about schizophrenia, and we all read the joke about "the voices in my head". But, contrary to what many people believe, not all people with schizophrenia hear voices in their heads.

Auditory hallucinations are very common in people with schizophrenia, but they are more likely to hear voices coming from some external objects in their bodies than in their minds. Plus, not all people with schizophrenia experience the same symptoms.

They may experience hallucinations (actually see or hear things that are not there), delusions (believing realistic idea), orderly mind, lack of affect (no display of emotion), or, in catatonic schizophrenia, even a lack of desire to move the same once.

Schizophrenia is a complex disorder with a variety of symptoms that may be. (Note: that the alternate personality is not one of the symptoms)

5. Autism Spectrum Disorders (Autism Spectrum Disorders)
Myth: Autism is a devastating disorder that would stop the ability of a person to be able to function within society.
There are many myths and even more potential / disputed myths about autism, but this seems to be one of the most common.

Many people hear "autism" and imagine children who are permanently in their own world where they can not speak or interact with others, who throw tantrums for no apparent reason, and that will never be part of normal society.

However, autism is called a spectrum disorder for a reason: autistic children ranging from people who can not communicate in any way with others, all the way to people who live normal, productive lives and it just seemed a little eccentric for us all.

severe autism is not a lifelong disorder,. Even very low autistic disorder can make a child live a very happy life.

There is also a story of low autistic disorder autistic children improve with therapy and almost entirely recovered from the problems associated with their autism, and many people and organizations who are looking for a cure for autism.

Unfortunately, organizations pushing for healing is usually based on this myth in particular by focusing on issues related to low-level autism, and almost entirely ignore the existence of high-level autism and autistic people who would never want to be "cured" .

6. Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder
Myth: People with ADHD do not notice anything.

ADHD is a disorder that has become quite popular in recent years, so I'm sure you all know what it is. For those of you who are not sure, people with ADHD have difficulty concentrating on tasks and can be hyperactive or impulsive. But it is not true, because sometimes it seems, that people with ADHD can not respond to attention.

Many of them can compensate attention to something that they think is really interesting, in the same way we are all much more willing to be distracted from the task tedious than fun. And, in fact, some people have trouble focusing because they really respond too much attention.

They think on all sides, sounds, and smells around them, and not just what's in their hands.
They have to learn to deal with all the other stimuli of interest and keep most of their attention on what is important.

The Selective Mute 4 properties (selective mutism)
Myth: A person with selective mutism is refusing to speak, or has been disrupted due to trauma in the past.

It is only on the list of disorders that you may have never heard this term before, although I'll bet you've heard about it and its myth.

I do not know other people with the disorder is more common myths believed, not only by the community as a whole but actually by professionals.

Selective mutism (formerly formerly called SMO mutism) is a disorder that almost always first appear in early childhood. Someone with selective mutism can be, and often, speak well, but did not speak, and sometimes not even communicate in other ways, in certain situations.

A large number of parents, teachers and psychologists who work with people with nature Which Selectively Mute believe that these people choose not to speak, perhaps in an attempt to control others. However, it turns out that most people with nature Which Selectively Mute want to talk, but not because they are really scared.

The majority of these patients also suffer from social anxiety disorder, and silence seems to be one way for them to cope with stressful situations.
Punishing a child for refusing to speak, because a lot of people who do believe in this myth, paradox makes the child even more anxious and can even make a child - a child with this disorder at all will not want to talk.

But if you do not know someone with selective mutism, you probably still believe in the myth that is very common in the media: some children and teenagers to stop talking entirely, or for everyone, but one or two people, because they are traumatized or repeatedly abused.

While some people become mute after trauma, it usually lasts a few weeks, not in months or years. Most people do not develop selective mutism in childhood due to trauma or abuse.

 7. Hurt yourself / Hurting Yourself (Self-Harm / Self-Injury)
Myth: People who intentionally cut, burn, or hurt themselves either trying to commit suicide is to seek attention.

Many people, especially teenagers, who suffer from various mental disorders overcome their inner pain with physical damage itself, most often by cutting.

Self-injury seems to be more common and well-known today, but the myths about people with this disorder have not intention to go. No matter what, self-injury is not a suicide attempt failed.

Some people self-injury harm themselves over and over again for years without any permanent disability that would threaten their lives, which would be a remarkable record of failure if they are really trying to die.

Many people are actually hurt themselves trying to avoid suicide by letting their feelings in a way that is (somewhat) more secure.

Many people also believe that self-injury is only looking for attention.
This is true for some people, especially because self-injury became more famous and most popular, but most people are actively trying to hide their injuries by wearing long sleeves or pants, or with a cut in places normally covered by clothing, as their upper thighs or abdomen.

Some self-injury sufferers are eager for someone to find out about their behavior so that they can get the help they need, but even many of those who are too afraid of the reaction of others, and ashamed of themselves, to really show the wounds them.

Moreover, even if a person decides to hurt themselves to get attention, not you have to be very concerned about what could be causing the problem they require so much attention that they get themselves a disservice to get it?

 8. Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder
Myth: People with OCD are always obsessed with the danger of germs, and are usually very concerned about neatness.

I can not count how many times I've heard people say that people with OCD because they are very neat or careful about hygiene.
Most people seem to think that the only people with OCD neat freak and / or germophobes, but it is much more complicated than just the nature of it.

OCD is an anxiety disorder with two characteristics.

First, people with OCD have repetitive unwanted thoughts (obsessions), they usually find something that is annoying or not at all in their character.
It's common to have an obsession about germs or contamination, or concerns to lock the door properly so thieves could enter, but it is also common to have thoughts about something bad happening to their families, about things - things that hurt or even kill someone, do something which is forbidden in their religion strongly believe, or ideas that are not desired.

Secondly, people think that doing some rituals / specific activities will rid bahaya.Dengan so they can get out of trouble, keep their home perfectly, check that the door is locked, think of certain words, avoid odd numbers, or just about anything imaginable . Doing this compulsion does not make the mind quiet for a long time, so the ritual is repeated on and on.

Not all people who have OCD concerned about germs, or whether the familiar ritual. Not everyone even has the urge observer will actually see, because many of them are mental disorders.

And perfection or neatness?
While some people with OCD perfectionist, this is more related to other disorders.
If you liked the first entry, you'll love this: This disorder called Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder, and it's actually different things.

One major difference is that people with OCPD consider their habits to become a part of themselves and desirable, while people with OCD are often very disturbed with their disorder.

Tuesday, July 29, 2014

Yuki-onna

Yuki-onna appears as a snowy night when the figure of a tall beautiful woman with black hair and pale blue lips. Her skin is pale or even transparent makes it blend well with the snowy landscape. Sometimes he wears a white kimono, but other legends describe it as a naked woman, and only the face and hair who stood out in the snow. Although it looks beautiful, her eyes can terrorize humans. He hovered over the snow, so it does not leave footprints (some legends claim that he does not have legs, characteristics on most Japanese ghosts), and he can turn into mist or snow if it feels threatened.
According to legend, Yuki-onna is associated with winter and snowstorms, is the ghost of someone who died in the snow. On the other hand, she looked beautiful and serene, yet ruthless when killing innocent people. Until the 18th century, almost the entire legend told as an evil creature. In today's story, his figure often portrayed more human, emphasizing her ghost on the nature and the beauty that is a snap.

Yuki-onna legend vary from one version to another version. In the stories, Yuki-onna appeared on the travelers who get stuck in a snowstorm, and uses his breath cold to freeze them to death. Another legend states that they mislead the travelers to freeze to death. In another story, it manifests as a woman carrying a child. Another legend tells Yuki-onna were more aggressive. In the story, he attacked the houses, breaking down doors with wind gusts in order to kill the occupants while asleep. In one story, he is more like vampires, draining the blood of the victim or the "power of life". Sometimes it is like a succubus, undermined the weak-willed man to freeze through sexual contact or kissing.

As snow and winter, Yuki-onna has a softer side. Sometimes he lets his victim go for various reasons. In one legend, he let a young man still alive because of his good looks and young age. He made ​​a pact to not tell the young man's presence, but later on, the young man recounted his meeting with Yuki-onna to his wife who turns out to be an incarnation of Yuki-onna. Blaspheme her husband because the wife had violated the agreement, but he forgives her husband's life for the survival of their children (but if the husband dare mistreat their children, Yuki-onna will come back without mercy to him. Fortunately, the husband is a father who good). In another version, Yuki-onna choose not to kill him, because he thought he tdak violate the agreement (Yuki-onna is not a person, so it does not include breaking the agreement)

Toire no Hanako-san



Toire no Hanako-san, (花子 さ ん?) Or Hanako-san in the Toilet (ト イ レ の 花子 さ ん Toire no Hanako-san) is a Japanese urban legend about a girl who is haunting the school bathrooms. She will appear when his name was called. Hanako is the ghost of the occupants of the toilet are quite popular in Japan.

Hanako-san is a famous urban legend and widely scattered so that it has a variety of versions. The calling Hanako-san serngkali performed by the children in the school as proof of courage ritual, or as a new student hazing methods, such as the Bloody Mary legend in Western schools.
Hanako-san called up by knocking on the bathroom stall door three girls on the third floor three times while asking 'Are you here, Hanako-san ", and a mysterious voice will say" I'm here. "In the booth will be present with a girl figure red skirt. Sometimes he appears with a white dress.
'Hanako' is a common female name in Japan in the 1950s, when the legend is [believed] started at that time.

Hanako ghost legend began in the 1950s when it was a scene where the little boy sighting in a school toilet with a red skirt, short bob hair, and could appear in the bathroom elementary schools in Japan. Based on the stories and rumors, that at that time there was a little boy who was hiding in the toilet of the school from the pursuit of his mother crazy, but unfortunate he was found and killed by the mother. Other versions mention that Hanako is a little boy who died because of air raids of World War II, when he was playing hide and seek with his friend and hid in the toilet. and some stories say that he is the ghost of a former student who had an accident at school. (one story from Fukushima prefecture, said that he is someone the girl who committed suicide from the library)
The legend of the ghost of Hanako began in the 1950s, when it was a scene where the ghost sightings young children in schools with a red skirt and a short-haired bob, and usually appears in the shower-bath in elementary school dijepang, based on the stories that circulate and desas- rumors at the time, said that there was a little boy who hid in the school while being chased by a crazy mother, however unfortunate he was found and killed by the mother. Another version says that Hanako is a girl who was killed by an air raid of World War II, when he was hiding in the school toilet, and some other stories say that Hanako is a girl who died in school toilet because of an accident.

Each school has its story Hanako respectively, excitement ghost Hanako's back occurred in 1980 where the ghost was no longer appears in the toilet but also in elementary school and junior high school. Hanako usually appears in women's restroom but sometimes also appear in the unisex toilet.

Hanako existence at all threatening and terrorizing dislike with a vengeance. He only spirits that just appeared to show the existence, and became mascot today the dreaded ghost children. Hanako will not chase or injure. There is no special way to ward off Hanako. Some even say that the original ghost Hanako is a good figure even willing to help anyone who was in trouble and was mentioned often bring good luck.

Kuchisake-onna (口 裂 け 女) The Slit Mouth Woman

Kuchisake-onna (口 裂 け 女) or The Slit Mouth Woman is a kind of demon in Japanese mythology and urban legend. He intangible woman who closes her mouth ripped with a fan, a scarf or surgical mask (the most popular version). He often appears on the deserted streets and ask people who met whether she was beautiful. When the man answered no or see the manifestation of the horror fear he would kill him.

In the legend said that Kuchisake-onna, being a young woman who lived in the Heian Period. Likely she is a wife or a concubine samurai. He was blessed with a very pretty face but arrogant, he was also often an affair behind her husband. Her husband was very jealous and betrayed attacked him and splitting his mouth from ear to ear. "Now who's going to say you're beautiful?" Sneered her husband.
While the version of the urban legend, Kuchisake-onna is a woman victim of facial surgery that failed. It is said that the doctor who operated on her face wearing pomade (hair oil type) with the piercing smell. When being operated on he could not rest because the smell was so that the doctor accidentally cut his mouth to tear. The woman became hysterical and angry and kill the doctor. Later he was killed by the residents of the city and become a ghost curious. There are several other versions of his origins, but less popular, for example:


• Victims of traffic accidents that damaged her face.
• A woman who experienced a psychiatric disorder that tore her mouth with sharp objects.
• A female rape victim whose mouth was torn down by the assailant or he himself did after becoming mad because of the rape.
• A woman whose ancestors worshiped obtain illicit money by stealth dog so that his descendants were condemned and torn mouthed when the dead will be stealth.


Kuchisake-onna torn covering her mouth with surgical masks and often roaming in the city at night, especially when it is foggy. When you meet someone (especially a child or student) on a quiet street, he would ask, "Am I pretty?" (Watashi kirei?) .When The man answered "yes", he will open his mask and asked again, "Even if like this? "at that time, when the victim is usually shocked and scared answered no, he would kill her with scissors, machetes, sickles, or other sharp weapons. When the victim still say yes after seeing his face behind a mask, he would be happy and free him, but there also said that although the victim did, Kuchisake-onna follow him to the new house would kill it at the door of the victim's home. When the female victim, Kuchisake-onna would like him to tear his mouth, when the victims are children, he will eat it.


Urban legend popular in the 70's said that the victims would have survived if he answers "normal". While the version of the 2000s said that the victims would have survived if the reply, "that's" so-onna Kuchisake confused and think first what he would do, when he was puzzled that the victim has a chance to escape. Another way to get away from Kuchisake-onna is to offer parents a yellow hard candy because he liked but could not enjoy it so reminded again on suffering. In addition, it could also say "pomade" three times, there is mention six times. Speech was going to make it because it reminded him scared and fled back to the surgeon who ruined her face. Victims can also use pomade to prevent follow.

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Origins of Ghosts True Story of Sadako in Japan


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Sadako Sasaki was born January 7, 1943; short life ended on 25 October 1955 when he was two years old, an atomic bomb was dropped by the United States in Hiroshima, Japan. Sadako lived near Misasa Bridge in Hiroshima where the bomb was dropped on August 6, 1945 At that time he did not know that he has been the victim of radiation after the bombing.

Sadako was a bright child, cheerful, very energetic, until his parents always warned him to sit tight for a while. Sadako was like running around. He really enjoyed being part of the "relay team" at school. Until he did not tell anyone that he began to feel dizzy while running. One moment, he fell in front of the teacher, sage called his parents to come to school. Dated February 21, 1955, Sadako began to enter the hospital. Sadako was diagnosed with leukemia contracted as a result of the atomic bomb. Her mother calls the "atomic bomb disease" (an atomic bomb disease).
In November 1954, smallpox grow on the back of the neck and ears. In January 1955, the nascent purple colored spots on his legs. On February 21, 1955, Sadako had to be hospitalized because doctors diagnose Sadako suffering from leukemia and was sentenced to life can only be a maximum of one year.

On August 3, 1955, a best friend Chizuko Hamamoto named Sadako who came to see Sadako in the hospital with a gold paper to make paper cranes, because it is based on the classic Japanese tale, if somebody makes a thousand paper cranes, then the request will be granted. Evolving story mentions that Sadako only able to complete 644 paper cranes before her death, and his friend continued until 1000 and buried all the bodies with Sadako. Another story of the Hiroshima Peace Memorial Museum stated that by the end of August 1955, Sadako completed 1,000 paper cranes and continue to make more.

Since  Sadako began making paper cranes to ask for healing for him. Strands of paper cranes hung over his bed with a piece of thread. Although Sadako had a lot of time in the hospital to fold the crane, he ran out of paper. He was using the medicine wrappings and whatever he could pick. He was visiting another patient's room to ask for recycled paper gift wrap visitors who come to visit patients. Chizuko also brought papers for him. Sadako wished to fold the crane 1000, but unfortunately, he was only able to fold 644 before his death.
 
Sadako's condition worsened drastically, making both parents and his brothers were sad to see it dying. His mother made ​​a patterned kimono cherry blossoms that can be worn before he died. When it Sadako felt his condition improved so that he allowed to go home for a few days. Sadako's friends with a boy named Kenji, an orphan, who also suffered from leukemia but already in an advanced stage. Kenji had been exposed to radiation since he was in his mother's womb. Sadako tried to give Kenji stork story of hope with gold (the golden crane story), but Kenji aware of the fact that it is near. His mother had already died, and he had learned how to read a chart blood (blood charts) and already knew that she was in a dying condition. When at home While in the hospital, Sadako saw with his own eyes the death of Kenji, and he was devastated. Sadako knew that the turn was coming soon.
After her family forced her to eat something, Sadako requested green tea and commented "It's good." That sentence is the last sentence. Surrounded by his family, Sadako died on October 25, 1955 at the age of 12 years. Her friends completed the manufacture of paper cranes rest until both the 1000 heron collected and buried with Sadako's body.

After the death of Sadako, his friends published a collection of letters to raise funds that will be used to build a memorial monument to Sadako and all the children who died from the effects of the atomic bomb. In 1958 a statue of Sadako holding a golden crane stands in Hiroshima Peace Memorial Park, the Japanese call it by name Genbaku Dome. At the foot of the statue there is a plaque that read:

"This is our cry. This is our prayer. Peace on Earth. "
("This is our screams. This is our prayer. Lah Peace on Earth").

In Seattle Peace Park is also a statue of Sadako. Sadako has become a symbol of the effects of nuclear war, reminded how dangerous nuclear war. Sadako is also a heroine for girls in Japan. Her story is told in Japanese schools to commemorate the bombing of Hiroshima. As for her dedication, residents of Japan celebrate August 6 as National Peace Day.

The story of Sadako became famous also among schoolchildren outside of Japan because it was written into a novel. The Day of the Bomb written by an Austrian writer Karl Bruckner nationality. Sadako and the Thousand Paper Cranes first published in 1977 written by Eleanor COERR. Robert Jungk also wrote Children of the Ashes, in which is written the story of Sadako anyway. Every year, thousands of paper cranes sent by children and adults from all over the world to the Hiroshima Peace Memorial Park. Crane is a symbol of hope for a better future is peace without suffering